How can you reduce the chance that your children become gang members?
We have told kids about the dangers of drugs and alcohol, now it’s time to tell them about the dangers of gangs.
- Be a good role model. You must set the standards for acceptable behavior. Kids who are exposed to dishonesty, drug/alcohol abuse and a lack of respect for people, property and authority are more likely to exhibit similar behavior.
- Spend time with your kids. Get involved in your child's life and stay involved.
- When they go out, find out where they are going, who they’re going with, when they will be home and who is getting them home. Do NOT let them leave unless you have all your bases covered.
- Build positive self-esteem. Kids who have the proper self-image don't rely on gangs for recognition or status.
- Take an active interest in your children's activities. Get them involved in organized after-school sports or activities, and if they quit what they’d been actively involved in, find out the reason.
- Monitor and control their behavior. Be firm but fair when it comes to discipline and enforcing the rules.
- Know who they hang out with? Where they hang out at? When will they be back?
- If you see what you think are gang signs, logos, colors or paraphernalia, call them out on it. Take a stance and let them know that though you are their friend, you’re also their parent, and gang activity is unacceptable.
- Help kids learn how to earn money outside of illegal activity.
